Oh dear. Jennifer Lopez hasn't taken to motherhood like a duck to water. She's bellyflopped in like a hippo to mudbath!

Jennifer is said to be buckling under the strain of modern day celebrity MILFDOM - so much so that Marc Anthony has had to send her off on her own for a while to get pampered and unwind. "Jennifer wants to be the perfect mother, but she crumbles if any normal little thing goes wrong. If the twins cry, she thinks it's because she's a bad mom, and bursts into tears herself" a source told Closer.

In a revolutionary move, Jennifer and Marc have opted to bring their twins up without the aid of a nanny. All very noble...but if the babies are developing diva like tendencies and interrupting Jen's all important MILF sleep at this stage, might be time to get one! Either that or start gushing to anyone who'll listen about the what a 'beautiful experience' motherhood is. Wouldn't want to shatter an illusion.....